Dementia and Capacity
“The Road To A Friend's House Is Never Too long” (Virginia to Florida)
It was midnight October 1960, after my 3oth birthday; we took a walk to Florida
state park. We sat down under the shining full moon and told stories and laugh
the night away. I still remember. I am coming to your house, so we can go to
the park and watch the full moon and tell stories.
Virginia to Florida
is a long way to visit a friend by midnight. Are you surprise
that a person is attempting
to do that, because he thinks that it is 10 minutes
away from his house? Please do not be surprise. A 75 years old man just want
to visit his friend and catch up on things they did/use to do 45years ago.
Do you see any problem with that? I do. Unless you understand
the word "Dementia",
is then, my answer will make sense to you. What is Dementia?
“It is an umbrella term used to describe a number of diseases that impaired
cognition (Usually memory and thinking). It is one of the most serious disorders
that affect more than 4 million people and is common in older adults. The prevalence
increases with age, with increasing age doubling every 5yeras after age 60”.
There are different types of dementia. “The most common is known as Alzheimer’s
disease (AD) and Pick disease”. While many may regard Alzheimer’s
disease to be “simple an early form of senile brain disease, all agrees
that Pick’s disease has it own entity”. Brief preview
of the two known common dementia‘s symptoms:
The Alzheimer’s association has developed a list of ten warning signs of
AD. A person with several of these symptoms should see a physician for a through
evaluation.
- Memory loss that affects skills
- Difficulty performing
familiar tasks
- Problem with language
- Poor or decreased
judgment
- Problem with abstract
thinking
- Misplacing things
- Changes in mood
or behavior
- Changes in personality
- Loss of initiative
As
much as these symptoms might be very distributing, bear in
mind also that your loved one needs to be evaluated
by a professional,
who can weight the possibility that his or her symptoms may have another
cause. Hope
for the
best, because “approximately
20% of those originally suspected of having AD turn
out to have some disorder; and the best yet, half of
these cases are treatable”. Points to consider:
We all know that it seems easier to ask questions, than to
get a logical reasonable answer. For this reason, we grieve;
shed silent tears, helpless to anything that
can change the situation. Always remember that you are not alone because there
are many resources out there to embrace. Most importantly, you must know that
you are the first giver of any kind of support to your loved one. Your loved
one is a happy receiver of the content and the context of the service which
must be offered with dignity.
Suggestion:
For more
information about Dementia and its’ related disease,
Call Alzheimer’s Association Toll –free phone 1-866-259-0042
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