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Communicating With and About People with Disabilities

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Affirmative Phrases

Negative Phrases

 

person with mental retardation

retarded, mentally defective

person who is blind, person who is visually impaired

the blind

person with a disability

the handicapped, crippled

person who is deaf, person who is hard of hearing

suffers a hearing loss, the deaf

person who has multiple sclerosis

afflicted by MS

person with cerebral palsy

CP victim

person with epilepsy, person with seizure disorder

epileptic

person who uses a wheelchair

confined or restricted to a wheelchair

person who has muscular dystrophy

person who has muscular dystrophy

physically disabled

crippled, lame, deformed

unable to speak, uses synthetic speech

dumb, mute

seizure

fit

successful, productive

has overcome her/his disability

person with psychiatric disability

crazy, nuts

person who no longer lives in an institution

the de-institutionalized

says she/he has a disability

admits she/he has a disability

person without a disability

normal person (implies that the person with a disability is not normal)

  • When talking with a person with a disability, speak directly to that person rather than through a companion or sign language interpreter.

  • When introduced to a person with a disability, it is appropriate to offer to shake hands. People with limited hand use or who wear an artificial limb can usually shake hands. (Shaking hands with the left hand is an acceptable greeting.)

  • When meeting a person who is visually impaired, always identify yourself and others who may be with you. When conversing in a group, remember to identify the person to whom you are speaking.

  • If you offer assistance, wait until the offer is accepted. Then listen to or ask for instructions.

  • Treat adults as adults. Address people who have disabilities by their first names only when extending the same familiarity to all others. (Never patronize people who use wheelchairs by patting them on the head or shoulder.)

  • Leaning on or hanging on to a person's wheelchair is similar to leaning on hanging on to a person and is generally considered annoying. The chair is part of the personal body space of the person who uses it.

  • Listen attentively when you're talking with a person who has difficulty speaking. Be patient and wait for the person to finish, rather than correcting or speaking for the person. If necessary, ask short questions that require short answers, a nod or shake of the head. Never pretend to understand if you are having difficulty doing so. Instead, repeat what you have understood and allow the person to respond. The response will clue you in and guide your understanding.

  • When speaking with a person who uses a wheelchair or a person who uses crutches, place yourself at eye level in front of the person to facilitate the conversation.

  • To get the attention of a person who is deaf, tap the person on the shoulder or wave your hand. Look directly at the person and speak clearly, slowly, and expressively to determine if the person can read your lips. Not all people who are deaf can read lips. For those who do lip read, be sensitive to their needs by placing yourself so that you face the light source and keep hands, cigarettes and food away from your mouth when speaking.

  • Relax. Don't be embarrassed if you happen to use accepted, common expressions such as "See you later," or "Did you hear about that?" that seems to relate to a person's disability. Don't be afraid to ask questions when you're unsure of what to do.