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For University Professionals, Peer Helpers, or Resident Assistants Who Are Dealing with Victims of Sexual Assault
How to Respond to a Victim/Survivor of Sexual Assault
- Arrange to talk with the student alone and express your concern (ex. “Sometimes when students (suddenly stop going out), it is because they are upset about something or under a lot of stress. Is this the case with you, I might be able to help.”
- The student may or may not want to give you details – respect her/his comfort level
- The victim/survivor should be encouraged to meet with GMU Sexual Assault Services staff, so that she/he can be offered appropriate support services as well as be given all medical/legal/campus options
What to Say
- It is most important that you listen and provide support
- Avoid questions that imply blame (any that begin with WHY)
- Reassure the student that the sexual assault was not her/his fault
- Provide limited information; encourage her/him to talk to GMU Sexual Assault Services or the GMU Counseling Center
- Respect the student’s right to decide what actions to take or NOT to take
- Express your willingness to provide further listening and support, but set limits
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